you ordered it. did it say on the menu that bread and butter came with what the person initially ordered? if not, why on earth are you surprised you got charged? restaurants aren't in business to give food away. you think the manager is being petty about two dollars, but you are being just as petty, or you wouldn't have brought it up in the first place. a note for the future: when you are at a restaurant and ask for a food item don't be surprised if they have the audacity to charge you for it and not kiss your rosy red behind when you get huffy.