I packed my 7 year olds lunch last night and laid out her clothes, helped her with her homework, found her library book that was due today,helped pack her backpack and all because I had to leave at 7am today. I got up and showered and left, all he had to do was give her a shower, feed her and drive her to school. I cleaned for 2 clients, picked up my 7 year old, stopped at the post office. I came home, unloaded my car, sorted the mail, got my 14 and 17 year old off with their Dad. My 7 year old and I went grocery shopping, picked up a present for a b-day party tomorrow, came home, wrapped it,put away groceries, had dinner, loaded the dishwasher, ran a load of wash, read a book and put her and our puppies to bed. I just finished picking up the house, doing some Brownie paperwork and when he calls from work I said " how come you didn't do the dishes after you had lunch ?( he works nights and usually does whatever dishes are left from breakfast and his lunch before he leaves in the afternoon).He says " Oh, I dropped Sarah off and then went up to my parents and went hunting. I just came home and changed and left for work." OH. It drives me crazy.