I have 3 children, granted they are all a bit older, 11, 6 & 5. NEVER have I been approached anywhere because of my childrens behavior. I have been approached by wait staff and other patrons commenting on how well they behave. Usually this happens when there are other unruly kids around. My kids even know that they must clean up the area where they have eaten. No food left on the floor, napkins and silverware in their plates. The waiters/ress are not slaves of the restaurant, just like I am not a slave at home. Consideration, mannners, politeness, teach your kids these traits. The world would be better off.