Unless anyone here never said the words WTF, I don't think you have any business saying the husband, in a moment of shock, should have been calm, cool and collected and politely said, "Excuse me gentlemen... but you just blew debris into my car (and possibly his eyes), and I wish to express my displeasure with your actions". Would that have been YOUR reaction? I can tell you right now, it wouldn't have been mine.

It's so easy to say what he should have done or how he should have reacted, but when something happens so quickly, it's pretty hard to compose yourself and not react instinctively. I would love to see how some of you would react if this happened to you.