Excuse me mam or miss or what ever would be the right thing to do! Stay and make them wait on you without being rude! Why would your girl cry because you had to leave and go somewhere else to get you guy's something to eat? Jeez, what will your daughter do if it was a more complicated situation ? need Wendy's to furnish a grief counselor. If anything teach her about rude people who have no regard for you or her! It's called life, and usually it's not fair, but keep pushing on and you will get there! Peace