I know what you mean girl, racism is not always in your face. My experience, as a woman w/o much melanin, has always been: they never ask me if i need help, or even a 2nd glance when I walk in. Yet when i walked in 1 time with my man, who happens to have a lot more melanin, they immediately asked us if we need help, what are we looking for, and such. Also i noticed when we went to diff aisles in the store, they KEPT watching him. What the fuck. So ya I won't shop there anymore. That's just bullshit.