So you think it's OKAY for your daughter to serve as the lookout? And are you so naive that you think she hasn't stolen in the past?

Parents like this are a huge problem: You don't let your kids take responsibility for their mistakes, and then you don't take responsibility for raising kids who do stupid things like steal.

You're not doing your daughter any favors with your attitude or by writing this letter. Frankly, you should be ashamed of yourself for not making your daughter own up to her BAD ACTIONS.