This story reminds me of the time I waited tables at a little cafe.. I had a couple and they woman ordered the apple cobbler, I mistakenly brought her out a banana pudding, she took one bite a very loudly said to me how she was allergic to bananas, and made a big spectacle of herself by scratching a lot. I really don't see how she could've not know it was banana pudding, it totally reeked of bananas.

A few things wrong with your story:

1. Don't you look at or in your food before you eat it to make sure it does not contain anything you are allergic to?

2. The wait staff cannot read minds, they do not know what you are allergic to.

3. You throat was closing up and you fannied about waiting for an apology?

4. If you allergy is severe enough to close up your throat, how come you don't carry an epipen?