And as to saying that if you don't have time to meet someone then you shouldn't be in a relationship... That's horse hockey. Hubby and I met on Match.com. We've been together 14 years now. We are both extremely shy, and prefer quiet activities at home. We would have never met if it wasn't for online dating. One of the reason he emailed me? My spelling and grammar in my profile. (lol. Even when I text now, I don't use texting slang. HATE IT!)