OK, I finally got a chance to read the first letter. One of the things that you need to remember about the internet, message boards in particular, is that there are some people out there who do nothing but flame people. The entire reason they post is to get a rise out of someone. It is unfortunate and childish, and I am sorry that you seem to be targeted right now by one. As stated earlier, the best thing you can do is to simply stop responding. The more you do the happier they are.