Since when is "oversized needs" equal to a medium. Yes, he should not have looked for your shirt size but I would hardly call that "fondling". Did he give you a little massage to?

Asking for some nice shirts or gift cards is just greedy. You should have addressed this issue right then and there with the manager. At this point, Target doesn't even know what employee you are talking about.

Calling the employee a "red shirted henchman", that's just rude. I agree with Ticky, this just reeks of shenanigans.