How do you know your server was a girl - did you check under the apron?

I can understand her unhappiness with your sitting 'in her tabels'. First of all, customers generally stay at one *table* per visit. It must have upset her to come back to find you at different tables throughout the night.

Secondly, I'm sure she expected you to be sitting AT the table, not IN it - that made it very difficult for her to find a place to set down your plates, I'll bet!

Next time try a little harder to be part of the solution, not part of the problem.