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ICEY ROADS?? I DON'T CARE!! GET INTO WORK NOW!!!
Posted Tue January 16, 2007 5:18 pm, by Mandy M. written to RentACenter
Write a Letter to this Company
I have a cousin who works for one of your locations in San Antonio, TX. He's a very loyal employee, is always in on time and takes his job very seriously. He doesn't typically complain, which is why I am writing this letter and not him, but he has PLENTY to complain about. I have watched your company treat him poorly for the past two years, but this time is the final straw. I could go on for hours about the way he's been treated by management, but that's on him to try to fix. However, when your company starts compromising the safety of my family members, I simply REFUSE to keep quiet.
San Antonio was hit with a pretty bad winter storm last night. Across the country, there have been close to 100 deaths attributed to this exact storm and many businesses, Government agencies and schools have been closed to protect the employees and students working in and attending these establishments. My cousin was told that he was expected to come in and that they didn't care what the weather was outside. And, basically, his future employment at this location was threatened if he didn't show. WE ARE BEING ADVISED TO STAY OFF THE ROADS AND TO STAY HOME, BUT, APPARENTLY, RENT A CENTER IS GOING TO BE OUT DELIVERING MERCHANDISE IN FREEZING RAIN ON ICEY ROADS???? This is just ridiculous. I hope that your company realizes that, by putting your employees in dangerous situations like these, it opens the company up to all kinds of potential lawsuits.
If you even bother to read or take seriously anything I have to say, I'd like for your company to re-evaluate it's business practices and take into account the safety and well being of it's employees. Closing down for ONE DAY in order to protect the lives, property and well being of your employees is NOT going to bankrupt your company. For goodness sake, your company earns 300% on everything that leaves your store.
Think about it and, please, strongly consider what I am saying.
Sincerely
Amanda Morales
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Amanda,
As a Manager, It was wrong that these demands be made. Most likely, the manager did not want to come in and work. That is what is job or position is all about. They cover at all cost. I am sure they were not even remotely busy. Try call your local area of:
The Department of Labor and Relations, make a complaint with job force, complain to your General Attorney Office, or even to an local attorney for a chapter nine law suit. Maybe others in the store will stick together on these issues. I don't always believe that suing is the anwser, but legal advice is always a plus in handling, saying, and doing the correct thing. Addressing these issue with an attorney may help in dealing with future events.
A. Ph.D.
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by lj Posted Sat February 3, 2007 @ 10:15 PM
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I couldn't agree more with you! Way to go!!!
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by Maelwys Posted Sat February 3, 2007 @ 5:00 PM
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For the love of God, the word is spelled 'Icy'. That is all. Otherwise I agree with you.
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by Poetic One Posted Wed January 31, 2007 @ 8:07 AM
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I agree with you 100%. I was in a bad car wreck a few years ago trying to get to work on a bad weather day. Not only did my absence still count against me...my car was totaled and I was banged up. When I realized that the company did not care anything about my safety, I made up in my mind that I will use my OWN judgement when it comes to bad weather.
I really hate that happened to your cousin and hope your letter makes a difference.
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by PC Posted Fri January 26, 2007 @ 9:34 PM
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Ya know, I have to agree with you and your cousin! When there is icy roads in San Antonio, there is now way in hell that ANYBODY with a brain is going go out on those roads! And Rent-a-Center should be asshamed of themsleves for forcing thier employees to come in, despite the danger! And I'm also assuming if there was totally White Out Condidtions in San Antonio, to the point to where NOBODY can get out on the roads, I can image that Rent-a-Center will be "forcing" thier employees to come to work! After reading your letter, I will stay away from Rent-a-Center from now on! Just becuase of how they treat thier employees!
Sincerly,
-Phoenix Nimitz, Katy, TX
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by Katlyn Laird Posted Fri January 26, 2007 @ 5:04 AM
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Amanda,
You are absolutely right! My philsophy on driving during unsafe conditions is: if you're not going to make more than your insurance deductible, why should you go in? Will Rent-A-Center pick up the tab for your deductible for you????????? Also, how do you get to work once your car has been totalled? Does this then mean that you are definitely fired? Yes, Rent-A-Center does make 300% on their low end products. This is yet another example of how they take advantage of not only their employee's, but the consumer as well! My advice is to keep this philosophy in mind. Perhaps maybe your cousins boss might consider personally picking up his employees the next time. Do you think he would jeopardize his own safety and vehicle? I don't think so! Thoughts???
Sincerely,
Katie Laird
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by J. Posted Wed January 24, 2007 @ 3:03 PM
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I wish I could sympathize because really, I think "non essential" companies (like RentACenter - sorry, but it is) should consider the safety of their employees and employ snow days when necessary.
Having said tht, my boss doesn't believe in them. Doesn't care how bad the roads are, doesn't care that every government office and school in town has closed, he insists we come in or take a vacation day. And no - I would not consider our company to be an "essential" one either. It wouldn't kill it to be closed for a snow day.
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by belldandy112 Posted Tue January 23, 2007 @ 7:39 PM
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I think the problem is that corporations typically have uniform rules regarding what conditions employees are expected to drive in, and that's just the breaks when you sign up to work for those guys. We here in the South forget that much of the U.S. has more severe winters, and in fact, our little ice storm here in Texas wasn't a big deal to the big powers that be who headquarter up north. I used to live in Alaksa, where the ice on the road is about four inches thick nine months of the year; you don't see bare asphalt unless it's July or August. When we got an "ice day" like the one that whipped through Central Texas, our employers told us to take the day off so we could "run errands, take the kids to the park, and enjoy the good weather" (no joke). That said, people have to know how to drive in that mess and have the proper accoutrements (studded tires, engine heaters, etc.) - if you don't, it's gets life-threatening pretty quick.
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Take a sick day, ha. But seriously, that is an important and he could lose his life driving on icy roads. It's a good think we have good ol' Bush to keep our labor laws strict. Oh wait, bush is pro-death. Well, I hope it works ouut for him, because Global Warming isn't very warm anymore... Only in the summer!
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by Disgruntled Starlight22203 Posted Fri January 19, 2007 @ 5:47 PM
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If I may...
I agree with your letter Mandy. My brother is from San Antonio and had never seen real snow until he moved to Ohio. Additionally my husband and I went to New Orleans for Mardi Gras for our honeymoon and it happened to be a little snowy. Residents of the area were like chickens with their heads cut off not knowing what to do. It amazed us. Being from an area that gets lake effect snow, there are times where the roads are horrible and the police advise that we don't drive. Unfortunately we still have to work until they order that we stay off the roads, which rarely happens and I believe should happen more often. More companies should be concerned with the well being of their employees.
The responses you have received here may not have been to your liking but every one of us is entitled to an opinion. HOW we relay that opinion should be carefully weighed before we respond to people. And while I certainly don't condone the way some of my fellow PFBers relay their opinion, two wrongs do not make a right. You had the option to be above the nastiness and remain level headed, an option you obviously did not consider until it was too late. Mandy, I almost like you. I think that you are very intelligent. Certainly feisty. My advice to you is to leave it be. Let people say what they want... walk away. If you'd like to continue discussing letters on the boards, you will be welcome as soon as you suck it up and let any negative feelings towards everyone go. PFB is a very forgiving community. We all have our disagreements. We've even said some pretty harsh things to one another. The most important thing to remember is that we don't know one another so we shouldn't attack each person but disagreeing with one's ideas is welcome so long as you do it respectfully and intellectually.
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Thanks
by Mandy Morales Fri January 19, 2007 @ 11:24 PM
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Personally,
by Not so disgruntled anymore Starlight22203 Sat January 20, 2007 @ 9:16 AM
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LMAO
by DISNEY SUCKS Starlight22203 Sun January 21, 2007 @ 6:24 PM
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I think it's great that you look out for your cousin and care about his safety.
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by Mr. Mafia Posted Thu January 18, 2007 @ 4:14 PM
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This letter is very well written, it has good points but your cousin should have written it. Your cousin needs to learn how to stand up for himself, or people will continue to push him around(Like Rent a Centre seems to be doing). It seems like Rent a Centre is pushing him around. They can't fire him for standing up for himself. (especially if you are correct and he is a good employee) Also someone else mentioned this letter could cost your cousin his job.
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But . . .
by PattiM Thu January 18, 2007 @ 7:09 PM
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by Mandy Morales Thu January 18, 2007 @ 11:08 PM
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good for you
by Mandy Morales Thu January 18, 2007 @ 11:24 PM
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also...
by Mandy Morales Thu January 18, 2007 @ 11:28 PM
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Hey Mandy
by Refreshed Amanda Fri January 19, 2007 @ 7:38 AM
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Agreed.
by PattiM Fri January 19, 2007 @ 4:30 PM
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by middleclassdad Posted Thu January 18, 2007 @ 9:59 AM
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For what it's worth - I've lived in San Antonio for a long time now and they tend to overreact a bit to winter conditions thanks to the local media - that being said -- better safe than sorry and saftey first are usually good rules to live by. Many cities have worse traffic conditions than San Antonio in general but few have worse drivers. Most San Antonio drivers don't slow down in wet conditions and we pay a very heavy price for that. Ironically, it's probably safer to drive in SA during winter conditions than it is to drive when it is simply raining -- when there are winter concerns, people tend to stay home or slow down a little if they must get out and local public officials tend to get more proactively involved. Still it is a pain when you go to the Bank to get some much needed cash and your Bank has closed 45 minutes early and then you go the next morning and they open 2 and 1/2 hours late - the traffic is light and there is NO ice on the roads at all in most parts of the town (only on the shoulders) - so they do tend to take things a bit too far.
Nevertheless, if this employee headed into work after sunrise, drove slowly and on backroads -- he probably would have been LATE BUT SAFE and he probably would have NOT been fired so long as he or she made the effort (especially if they had a good record prior to this) -- if nothing else, with many of the roads closed and saftey alerts everywhere, an employer would be hard pressed to expect everyone to be on time and therefore unlikely to fire anyone just for being late.
The truth isn't always in the middle but it is rarely found only at one extreme.
For what it's worth.
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by Chris M Posted Thu January 18, 2007 @ 12:42 AM
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I am usually not a fan of people writing on behalf of others. However, before I read the other comments at all, I actually found myself thinking that this was an acceptable case for such an event, in my opinion.
Safety if very important, and while you can say that her cousin could bring it up, it is possible. However, unless they really dig and guess, etc they most likely will not match this letter to a specific person. Also, as we know, that area was hit pretty hard. If they had a snow emergency in the county that the person lived in or had to drive through to get to work, then I think that they should let the person stay home. The police, etc want the people off the streets in snow emergency areas. And, this letter can go past just her cousin, but is asking RAC to look at their policy in general. That's all, nothing more.
She was not asking for money, a job, coupons, etc. She simply asked that RAC look at snow emergency policy. I think it's a fantastic idea for all companies to keep such policies up to date and re-freshed as needed.
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True, that
by tickytack Thu January 18, 2007 @ 7:48 AM
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Not very
by KamenRiderOsaka Thu January 18, 2007 @ 9:43 AM
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My read...
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by Gerald R. Posted Thu January 18, 2007 @ 12:32 AM
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It really comes down to whether or not your cousin had to travel any part of the highway system to get to work. If so then you have a point. If not then you don't. I live here in San Antonio and you could pretty much get around if you stayed off the highways. The roads (not the highways) were fine to drive on.
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I live in San Antonio. I went to a mall tuesday and most of the stores were dark and locked up. Many of the stores that were open were in the process of closing for the day and and it was only aout 12:30 in the afternoon. There were no hard feelings as one kind of expects the city to shut down when it rains and dips below 30 degrees. I realize it's funny to people who don't live in south Texas, but that's the way things are done around here. Today, the highways weren't even open! Your cousin's boss sounds like a jerk.
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by Mandy Morales Posted Wed January 17, 2007 @ 9:40 PM
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It's about time.
I was getting really fed up with all the assumptions about me. I never ONCE assumed anything. When I called names, it's because of how I was treated and, to me, those people were acting that way. Like being called scum, a bad mom... being told I needed to take drugs. Those are things that one can not gather from a letter posted on a website. I am an excellent mother. My kids are always clean, they are healthy, they are intelligent and they are loved very much. We live in a nice, clean home and neither my husband nor myself do drugs, drink excessively or abuse them in any way.
I work, I'm very much liked at my job and I am usually a very happy and caring person. I wrote the above email beacause I care very much for all of my family and I was upset at the idea that my cousin would have to drive so far on back roads to get to work. I probably should have waited until I cooled off to write the letter, but I didn't. If that had been pointed out to me by everyone on this site, I would have agreed. I saw PAINTEDLADY's point and realized that when she, nicely, pointed it out.
I was having fun... I mean, being called CUPCAKE was patronizing, but cute. No biggie. But then people started attacking me personally. My life outside of this stupid thread. THAT WAS NOT RIGHT. The ONE TIME I stooped to that level and mentioned inbreeding, I apologized and I meant it. Sure, I cursed... OH WELL. Most of the adult population does and it doesn't make you a better person when you refrain from cursing, but stoop to calling a person scum and attacking their parenting skills just because you don't agree with their email message.
I do apologize if I offended anyone with the cuss words, but I did so with the hope that those particular threads would be removed. From my side, it seems that they have been, so my work is done. I'm tired. I have some laundry to do and I have gone from having fun arguing to just being insulted at the attacks on my personal life, which you all know NOTHING about. So, have fun attacking innocent people. I'm truly done.
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by MommyG4 Posted Wed January 17, 2007 @ 9:39 PM
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Although I do not feel you should be the one writing this letter, I do feel you have a valid point. I, too, am from the south, Mississippi to be exact, and you are correct, we are not as adapted to icy, slick roads. If we were, then it would not be as big a deal for any of us. But when we get out on icy roads and slip and slide, well, we really don't know how to handle it.
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by Refreshed Amanda Posted Wed January 17, 2007 @ 9:18 PM
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Hey Mandy!
I am all for your complaint, but this was the wrong avenue to take it. If your cousin isn't a complainer, why was it necessary to send this? We just had some bad weather here, so I know how bad it sucks to have to go to work in it, but it must be done :(
If there was a complaint, your cousin should be the one to deal with it, not you.
Please don't mistake this as another snarky response to your letter, it truely isn't intended to be one; however, I think you thought people would agree more than they have. I am sorry you haven't gotten the responses you wanted, but there's a simple fix. Ignore the letter. Ignore the urge to check the comments. It'll save you LOTS of headaches, I promise.
Any letter writer who has had a letter widely disagreed with, has learned just to not go back to their letter. Feel free to sit back and enjoy the site, put you $.02 in where you want... this is a great group of people once you get to know them.
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by PattiM Posted Wed January 17, 2007 @ 7:43 PM
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Amanda - I just don't understand what your problem is. The company I work for is international, and we simply cannot shut down for local weather conditions. According to you, that makes me an asshole. Nice.
I'd like to thank you, however, for reminding me of some serious issues. We have a job opening and are considering a candidate who lives 30 miles away. I'm sure she'd really like the job, but do I really want her driving that far during a snow storm? I need to rethink this. If I hired a local candidate who lived just a few blocks away, maybe they wouldn't object to actually showing up when the weather gets bad.
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by KamenRiderOsaka Posted Wed January 17, 2007 @ 7:06 PM
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OK, I live near SA, and the city I live in is definately not used to this type of weather. The entire city shut down for a few days, and is still not fully operational.
My company was open. Hubby and I work for the same company. While I think it's crazy for a company to be open when the city is closed, and the mayor said to stay at home, a business is in business to make money. A lot of money would have been lost if my company had closed.
However, I can see it from both standpoints. If the roads are too dangerous, do not drive on them. Simple as that. I have experience driving in this weather since Im from Colorado, but a lot of people do not have experience. If you dont feel safe, dont put yourself into that situation. I am sure that his boss would not have minded given the weather circumstance. Mine didnt, neither did hubby's boss.
While I think its admirable that you're writing this for your cousin, I think its jumping the gun a bet. This entire thread is becoming a pissing contest, and youre acting like a fool. Please remember that this goes to corporate, and that you need to act like an adult when you write letters to companies. You also need to act a bit more mature when responding to these posts as well, because youre making an incredibly huge ass out of yourself.
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by Sarah H Posted Wed January 17, 2007 @ 6:40 PM
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Amanda, I completely agree with you. Too many large companies treat their lower level employees like garbage that can be replaced at any time. Companies like these should treat their employees better and then maybe they wouldn't have such a high turnover rate. I wonder when they will finally realize that. Anyway, there is absolutely no way they should have expected your cousin to come to work during a winter storm. I never ever drive to work in heavy snow because I feel that my life is more important than any job I could possibly have. Circuit City should not be threatening employees with termination if they do not come to work during a snow storm!!! That makes me sick.
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by Posted Wed January 17, 2007 @ 6:15 PM
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I manage a collection agency in Ohio. My employees are expected to bring their behinds to work unless a "level 3 emergency" has been declared in the county. A level 3 means you get ticketed if you are on the road.
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by vc Posted Wed January 17, 2007 @ 5:52 PM
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I highly doubt San Antonio has had the winter I've had in Colorado. I've driven on icey roads at least 50% of the time since November. And I drive 90 miles a day. I missed one day of work because they told me to just stay home. Had they not told me that, I would've gotten up two hours early and hauled my behind in.
Clearly if this guy can't be bothered to find another job, stand up for himself or write a letter, then I'm sure he doesn't have the capacity to deal with icey roads.
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STFU?
by vc Wed January 17, 2007 @ 7:03 PM
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What?
by vc Wed January 17, 2007 @ 9:07 PM
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by Mandy Morales Posted Wed January 17, 2007 @ 4:12 PM
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I AM SO WRONG AND YOU ARE ALL SO RIGHT! GEE... WHERE WOULD I HAVE BEEN WITHOUT THE PEOPLE OF PLANET FEEDBACK TO PUSH ME IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION. PLEASE... PAUSE WHILE I TYPE AN APOLOGY TO RENT A CENTER!!!
Okay, everyone, sarcasm aside... it's not that big of a deal. My letter, rant or whatever you want to cause it is probably going to be read and tossed aside like most the letters written here. I did not realize it was just a consumer site, ok? If I had realized that, I would have never posted it here. You guys really need to get your panties out of a wad. Excuse me while I pull mine out of one because I have become very worked up over the posts here, but as I look over at my 1 year old who is spinning and saying WEEEEEEE!!!! I have started to realize that this is really not worth me wasting time or getting so worked up over.
Honestly, I'm not an angry person and I'm not ARROGANT (as I have been called). I do, however, get worked up over things at time and I just let this get the best of me. So, anyway... I hadn't been to this sight since I was like 23 years old and I regret coming back now.
Have fun, folks!!
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BTW
by Mandy Morales Wed January 17, 2007 @ 4:15 PM
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by Cass Posted Wed January 17, 2007 @ 3:41 PM
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Mandy, I don't disagree with what you're saying in regards to employee safety, but this is between your cousin and his employer. He may not like to complain, but if his safety is being compromised, it's his responsibility to take it up with the company if he chooses.
You do have some valid points, but you should really re-write your letter, staying calm and leaving your cousin's personal issues out of it.
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by Gino Version 1.2 Posted Wed January 17, 2007 @ 3:37 PM
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There's so much wrong with the premise of this letter, Amanda Morales. Your cousin has a mind and free will and the right to write his own letters to whomever he wishes.
When he proposes, are YOU going to go down on bended knee and pop the question? Are YOU going to ask for her hand in marriage? Are YOU going to go on the honeymoon.... get the picture?
No one is forcing him to do anything. He has every right to say "I'm mad as hell and I'm not going to take it anymore" Are YOU going to pay his bills, his mortgage? etc.
You need to butt out of other people's lives and stop sticking your nose in other people's business. I'd be very upset if someone wrote this BS on my behalf and so would you.
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The employees at the rent a centers around here are long time PFB readers, for about the last four or five years. They have on occasion alerted corporate about certain letters.
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OK?
by Mandy Morales Wed January 17, 2007 @ 3:20 PM
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Suggested?
by PaintedLady Wed January 17, 2007 @ 3:31 PM
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I reread...
by Mandy Morales Wed January 17, 2007 @ 3:33 PM
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Too late...
by Mandy Morales Wed January 17, 2007 @ 3:56 PM
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Oops
by Mandy Morales Wed January 17, 2007 @ 12:49 PM
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Oh geez...
by Mandy Morales Wed January 17, 2007 @ 4:03 PM
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by Mandy Morales Posted Wed January 17, 2007 @ 4:05 PM
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I don't feel like writing a letter about my attorney. I don't feel discriminated, against. And, I am, actually, a really sweet person. If I was fired because of my attitude, I wouldn't have been rehired. RIGHT? Now... go do some legal work, MISS ATTORNEY. :o)
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Kisses
by Mandy Morales Wed January 17, 2007 @ 4:14 PM
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Yeah LadyMac!
by Fedup and betrayed Starlight22203 Wed January 17, 2007 @ 4:18 PM
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No...
by Mandy Morales Wed January 17, 2007 @ 4:20 PM
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Wow...
by Mandy Morales Wed January 17, 2007 @ 7:35 PM
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Exactly!!
by vc Wed January 17, 2007 @ 7:39 PM
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Oh yeah...
by Mandy Morales Wed January 17, 2007 @ 9:04 PM
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by tickytack Posted Thu January 18, 2007 @ 10:05 AM
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Much as I loathe to agree with the likes of this arrogant, self-serving OP, people do sometimes get fired because the other women in the office are jealous of them. When I was 22, I worked in an office at which the boss' wife also worked. Mind you, he had married her after having had an affair with her while he was married to someone else. I was 22 and the only single woman in the office. On my very first day I was chastised for wearing a dress that was too short (it came maybe a couple of inches above my knees - it was hardly a crotch-hugger) while other women had skirts on that were shorter. That was okay - they were married and not a "threat" to the boss' wife (like I'd have gone for her geezer beau to begin with). Then, the UPS guy started bringing me little gifts, like candy bars and the like. That wasn't approved of, either. Boss' wife even went as far as to contact the company attorney to see if she could have the policy handbook (of which I was never given a copy) rewritten to specifically state that I, and I alone, could only wear skirts that fell below the knee. I will reiterate that I was NOT wearing sleazy too short skirts. But I was 22 years old and friendly and the women in the office did not like that. Not just the boss' wife, ALL the women, who were much older than me.
Eventually, as I was opening the mail, I found a thank you note from someone who had interviewed for my position. I had not done anything wrong, hadn't made any job mistakes (heck, I was a receptionist - how do you screw up answering phones). I should have left right then, but nooooo. The next day, they got rid of me with the vague explanation that it was due to my "failing to comply with company policy" (what that policy was, I assumed, was not wearing skirts below my knees while everyone else was allowed to do otherwise, but I wasn't told, nor was I ever given a copy of said "policy"). Oh, not only that, but they also fired two of the men with whom I was friendly, with no real explanation. One was told it was excessive tardiness (he was in the office an hour EARLY each day), the other, I'm not sure (on the plus side, the "tardy" person got a position with a neighboring town, with whom this firm (engineering) often bid on projects. To my utter delight, his job was that of the lead engineer - the person who decided which bids were accepted. Guess what company lost a lot of money when its bids were no longer even considered?)
In the meantime, I used to change to walk home in the biggest stall in the bathroom, which had a large frosted (read: you weren't supposed to be able to see in it from outside) window. Turns out that the men in the office next door would gather each day to watch the show because the window was not, as I had been told by the cats in the office, impossible to see through from the outside. Not only did these women KNOW the men were watching me, they found it hysterical and didn't tell me (I found out when they fired me.
Anyway, it can and does happen. Petty jealousy and a big group of nasty, determined people can work against a person and being young and attractive can indeed get someone fired. It absolutely happened to me.
Oh, and as to why I didn't go get a new wardrobe just to please them? I was being paid something like $7 an hour. Couldn't afford it and my take on it was that I was NOT going to go to work just to get money to buy clothes I didn't like just to wear to work.
Long story. Sorry. But yes, it absolutely can happen.
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Well
by Mandy Morales Thu January 18, 2007 @ 1:45 PM
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Honestly
by Mandy Morales Wed January 17, 2007 @ 8:04 PM
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by Jeffrey Posted Tue January 16, 2007 @ 8:09 PM
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Points the others have made are important. This letter will most certainly get your cousin fired, if not severely tormented.
However, I want to give a little different take on this.
Normally, letters dealing with employer-employee situations are discouraged here, as this is a consumer site. Sure, consumers want to know how well or how poorly employees are treated.
But...
I'm willing to bet that there's someone out there that would have written a letter to RAC when his stuff didn't show up. "Snow or no, I want my rental!" someone would write.
While I'm in agreement that no employee should ever risk their life, I just know that customers would be furious if your cousin wasn't on the job.
People are petty and having reads hundreds of letters here at PF, I can guarantee that there are dozens of people, not including your cousin's boss, that don't give a darn about him and his safety.
Therefore, he needs to make his own decisions about what's best for him. To heck with what others think. And if his boss is this unreasonable, he needs to get another job.
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by Tina N Posted Tue January 16, 2007 @ 7:05 PM
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Well, Amanda... Let's see... I wonder how hard it's going to be for the manager at your cousin's store to figure out which of his employees "enlisted the aid" of someone like you to complain.
Tell me, Amanda Morales, are YOU willing to support your cousin when he gets fired because he put you up to this?
No, he didn't put you up to it, HOWEVER, he has no way of proving that to his boss.
I hope he's ever so grateful to you for getting him fired.
Here's an idea... BUTT OUT!! It's not your business and if he doesn't get fired he will be VERY lucky. Because if I got a letter like this, I guarantee the employee discussed in it would no longer be employed.
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Just curious
by Mandy Morales Wed January 17, 2007 @ 12:52 PM
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Hey...
by Mandy Morales Wed January 17, 2007 @ 4:06 PM
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Hmmm...
by Mandy Morales Wed January 17, 2007 @ 5:56 PM
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Pride?
by Juicy Jade Wed January 17, 2007 @ 6:10 PM
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Actually, it's 41 deaths at last count, which is plenty, but it's no "close to 100."
And you have no business writing a letter on behalf of another capable adult. Your cousin chose to work there, he chooses to STAY there, he chose to go into work for fear of losing his job -- and one would think that Rent-a-Center-type place jobs are a dime a dozen.
It's nice that you care about your cousin and I know you meant well, but you need to butt out with his employer. This is his problem, not yours.
What if your letter were to cost him his job?
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