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Discriminatory Practices at Food Lion

Posted Tue May 20, 2008 12:00 pm, by Cheryl H. written to Food Lion, Inc.

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On May 18, 2008, I sent my 17 year old African American male to Store Number 2910, 3310 Pine Bluff, Dumfries VA 22026 (703)441-0677. I gave him a list of four items I wanted him to purchase. They were: a pack of chicken wings, O'Brien potatoes, 2 cans of black-eye peas and a pack of brown and serve rolls. I received a call from my son, who informed me they did not have the brown and serve rolls, I told him to get the rest of the things. He called me again and said he had the black eye peas, but couldn't find the potatoes. I told him to go look by the French fries, he told me they didn't have the ones I wanted. I TOLD HIM TO PUT THE BLACK EYE PEAS BACK AND GO TO ANTHER STORE.

He put the peas back and as he was leaving the store, he was approached by an employee who asked him where were the cans he had in his hand, my son told him he had put them back. He told my son to show him where he put them back, and he did. THEN the day manager in charge, approached him and he had to show him where he put them back. My son was totally humiliated by this incident because some of his class mates work at the store and witnessed these actions.

When my son came home, he told me he was not ever going back to that store, because they had accused him of stealing. He started telling me what happened, I picked up the phone to contact the store but my husband stated no he wanted to go up there. At this point, we were both furious. The store day manager informed my husband that a store stocker had seen my son and thought he was trying to steal something. Yet when I went up there, to get the store information, he told me the meat cutter was the one following my son. I left my name and number and asked the store manager to contact me, I gave them my home and cell number.

Needless to say the store manager NEVER called me. The next day (5/19?08) I called the store manager and informed him I was not at all pleased with the accusations and not one but two people antagonizing my son and humiliating him, and I wanted someone to explain to me the policy on suspected shoplifters. He could not answer my question. He told me the meat cutter said my son acted like previous shoplifters that this meat cutter had proven to have shoplifted. I then ask him what are the criteria for acting like you are trying to hide something, and he told me he had not asked the meat cutter that many questions regarding the incident because he didn't know how far we were going to take this. I informed him I was not going to stop until I get some satisfaction. I started telling him because my son is a young African American male he should not be intimated every time he walks into their store. I asked him if they had cameras in the store because I would like to see how my son was "acting" like he was trying to hide something.

What they accused him of was stealing the black eye peas, now if this meat cutter was following him why didn't he watch him all the way through and see him put the black eye peas back. Why did it take two people to harass him? Is the meat cutter also security? When I asked the manager these questions, and I told him they were stereotyping and profiling my son, he told me he could not continue this conversation because I was implying racial motives, which I was and still believe because my son was black, was treated in this manner. I also informed him that I have been part of this community for over 9 years, I have always patronized this store, and I never suspected them of stereotyping or profiling individuals fitting my son's description. It is demeaning to him and obnoxious for a major food chain to be so blatantly prejudice.

I would like the meat cutter and the manager on duty to personally apologize to my son in front of the employees that were on duty when this transpired.


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by Tony B. Posted Mon December 1, 2008 @ 12:53 PM

We have the reverse problem at store #1324 where it is obvious that
the management is black and the white employee's were abused out of
their jobs. They were replaced with black employee's. I wouldn't mind
if it was all black but I am a senior citizen and I need to shop close
to home but they are so rude to me. I have seen how bad they talked to
white employee's and it made me feel bad. These are not good people
that run this store, now I have to go further up the road to shop. I
have reported it more than once but it has gotten worse. Food Lion is
not a good company, don't shop there. How sad customer's complaints
are ignored.
We, all, deserve apologies.

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by Marty5223 Posted Mon May 26, 2008 @ 7:16 PM

This reminds me of something that happened in Charlotte NC a couple of
months ago. A 17 year old balck male student that graduated 1st in
his class was employeed by Food Lion. He came home and mentioned to
his Mother that he had taken a couple of hot pockets from work.

His mom sent him back to the store to apologize and pay for the hot
pockets.

Apparently management got angry with him and told him to leave the
store. Police were called and the 17 year old was tasered. He died
in the Food Lion.
http://news14.com/content/headlines/594088/mom-mourns-son-after-taser-
incident/Default.aspx

I think you might be on to something with your opinion they are
discriminatory. I think Food Lion does have some issues.

I think the store is in some serious need of sensitivity training.

I am white but gay and had a very bad experience in a Myrtle Beach
Food Lion store a few years ago during Gay Pride.

Sorry this happened to your son!

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by ♪♪Venice♪♪ Posted Thu May 22, 2008 @ 5:07 PM

I understand your request for an apology because your son deserves
one, but I really think you should ask him if he wants a public
apology at the store. If he's anything like my teenage son, he might
prefer a private apology with as little attention as possible. An
apology in front of the employees might make you feel better, but it
might make your son uncomfortable. Maybe you should ask him how he
would like the store to handle this situation.

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There you go again by RedheadwGlasses Thu May 22, 2008 @ 6:31 PM


Well by ♪♪Venice♪♪ Thu May 22, 2008 @ 6:43 PM


by C H. Posted Thu May 22, 2008 @ 4:42 PM

I'm not sure I would call it discrimination, but it was wrong. They
have no right to humiliate anyone in public. Over two cans of black
eye peas??? Shockingly stupid of them.

Your son deserves a public apology as he was insulted in public.

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by dulynoted Posted Thu May 22, 2008 @ 8:04 AM

Of course he could not continue the conversation because you were on
the right track and he knew it. But he also was not going to say it
over the phone.

I think because this meat cutter had previously caught someone
stealing, he was over zealous and apparently thought he was going to
catch another thief.
And while employees should be aware of any strange behavior from a
customer or fellow employee, they have no right to accuse anyone
unless they actually see them hide the item and try to remove it from
the premises.
Your son did neither.

I believe this young man deserves an apology and I agree with Mom that
this should be done at the store with the meat cutter and manager
present...but not necessarily in front of ALL the other employees.

And mom, I hope your son understands people are different and because
he was "profiled" he now understands what it feels like and hopefully
will never do the same to someone else.




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by Brownlee1975 Posted Wed May 21, 2008 @ 1:40 PM

I work at a retail grocery store very similar.We have very strict
guidelines to adher by. We have to see them conceal the actual
merchandise and then leave the store with the merchandise, all wile
constantly observing "shoplifter" to make sure they did not change
their minds and put it back. I wouldn't stop until you speak with
someone higher up than the store manager. Your son deserves an apology
from the D.M and the store manager. A face to face apology.

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by SumnerMan Posted Wed May 21, 2008 @ 7:17 AM

One thing I've been taught is that unless you see evidence of a person
stuffing/concealing merchandise you don't even confront the person and
accuse them. You need to see them in the act of concealing. Also,
cans of anything are sort of hard to conceal. Shoplifters who conceal
usually go for smaller, more valuable things. If I were a betting man
(and I am) I'd bet your son WAS targeted because of race with his age
being a secondary factor.

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"Headband Lady" by Casmly Wed May 21, 2008 @ 7:36 AM


That makes a lot of sense by LadyMac Wed May 21, 2008 @ 7:51 AM


OH trust me, they can ... by justpassin'through Wed May 21, 2008 @ 8:10 PM


Are you sure by ♪♪Venice♪♪ Thu May 22, 2008 @ 5:45 AM


I could by Just Brenda Thu May 22, 2008 @ 8:17 AM


Haha.. n/t by ♪♪Venice♪♪ Thu May 22, 2008 @ 4:41 PM

by PlanetFeedback's Mr. Helpful Posted Wed May 21, 2008 @ 12:15 AM

1. Bottom Dollar is a Food Lion brand. Therefore there is nothing
wrong with Cheryl addressing her letter to Food Lion.

2. Store #2910 is listed at the Pine Bluff address with the same phone
number on this Food Lion ATM locator:
http://www.foodlion.com/documents/AtmInfo.pdf

3. There is a Bottom Dollar store listed at a Jefferson Davis Hwy
address in Dumfries, VA with the same phone number as Store #2910.

4. A check of the Jefferson Davis Hwy address on Google Maps shows
that, in fact, the store is at the INTERSECTION of Pine Bluff and
Jefferson Davis Hwy.
http://tinyurl.com/5rn9m2

5. According to a press release on Bottom Dollar's website which
announces the opening of ten more stores..."Another way Bottom Dollar
Food differs from other discounters is that stores have butchers on
site to assist customers with custom cuts. In addition, they also
offer a localized assortment to make sure customers' needs for
Hispanic, Asian or other regional items are addressed".
http://www.bottomdollarfood.com/news/article8-22-07.asp

Because of this additional information, I think it's safe to conclude
that this store DOES exist at the location the letter writer claims it
exists. I dont know why the address changed however its clear its in
the same location.

Cheryl, thank you for using PlanetFeedback. We hope they get back to
you with a successful resolution.


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You folks are good! by Donno Wed May 21, 2008 @ 12:31 AM


I appreciate your research by ♪♪Venice♪♪ Wed May 21, 2008 @ 1:42 AM


Wow- by Bobosgirl Wed May 21, 2008 @ 2:27 AM


Exactly.. by SumnerMan Wed May 21, 2008 @ 7:08 AM


I suspect the change in address by LadyMac Wed May 21, 2008 @ 7:49 AM


See...Mr Helpful... by dulynoted Wed May 21, 2008 @ 12:12 PM

by RedheadwGlasses Posted Tue May 20, 2008 @ 10:45 PM

The address she cited doesn't exist. In fact, it would be in the
middle of a building-less portion of that road:

http://maps.google.com/maps?hl=en&tab=wl

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What do you think by ♪♪Venice♪♪ Tue May 20, 2008 @ 11:03 PM


I found the address the OP mentioned around the corner using Yahoo! by Donno Wed May 21, 2008 @ 12:28 AM

Re: Discriminatory Practices at Food Lion by Mike H. Tue May 20, 2008 @ 10:13 PM


Oh no! Another person oblivious to the issues faced by minorites! by Queen Green Wed May 21, 2008 @ 10:47 AM


I imagine by RedheadwGlasses Wed May 21, 2008 @ 11:21 AM


Amen Red! And THAT'S why I love you, *chuckle*! You count me as one of those friends too! by Queen Green Wed May 21, 2008 @ 9:26 PM


Yay! by RedheadwGlasses Wed May 21, 2008 @ 9:45 PM


Sorry...no, but if I come across one you'll be first on my short list *chuckle* by Queen Green Thu May 22, 2008 @ 3:03 PM

I experienced something similiar with by C A. Thu May 22, 2008 @ 2:50 PM

by Queen Green Posted Thu May 22, 2008 @ 3:06 PM

and I hate to be an a** but in my head when this happens to me (I must
be fair and say it only happens occassionally) I think to myself "You
make like.....$10.00 an hour, maybe you have to steal but I certainly
do not". I know, I know but I just can't help it....it makes me that
mad! But I never say it, I always try to be the bigger person.

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by Donno Posted Tue May 20, 2008 @ 10:06 PM

*Bottom Dollar* has a store at the following address and phone
number:
"17120 Jefferson Davis Hwy Dumfries VA 22026 703-441-0677"

Note this phone number matches the one in the letter, but the street
address differs for some reason.

Thus, this letter, as a minimum, should have been sent to Bottom
Dollar.

Food Lion's website lists no stores within 50 miles of Dumfries.
rxgirl gave me the idea to look into this. Good catch!

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by Squad 51 KMG 365 (aka rxgirl) Posted Tue May 20, 2008 @ 7:46 PM

I live in the same county and I am familiar with Dumfries, there has
not been a Food Lion for about 2 years, I think the one in Dumfries
became a Bottom Dollar food store. The other Food Lions around here
became Bloom. I would think that if you had "patronized the store for
over 9 years" you would know this.

I call shenanigans on this because Bottom Dollar (Food Lion) is like
Aldis. There would not be a meat cutter because it is a very basic
food store hence the name Bottom Dollar.

Good try though!

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by RedheadwGlasses Posted Tue May 20, 2008 @ 5:28 PM

I'm not sure whether I agree with Beeracuda or whether this really is
a race issue. I can see easily how both things came into play.

But on a completely separate note, I"m thinking a kid who doesn't know
where potatoes are in a grocery store (or who doesn't think to ask a
store employee or another shopper) perhaps isn't the best kid to send?
;) (I know, he'll learn eventually.)

If you hear back from Food Lion, please share their response. (I
expect it'll be nothing but corporatespeak gobbledygood, but maybe
they'll surprise us.)

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by Beeracuda Posted Tue May 20, 2008 @ 4:45 PM

I got news for you Cheryl. Your son was stereotyped, but not because
of his race. It was because of his age. It still may not seem to be
fair, but that's the age of people who seem more inclined to steal,
and I'm sure stores have statistics to prove that.

Of course, it doesn't help that a lot of teenagers don't have a lot of
composure in public. I remember when I was that age, long ago, and
I'm sure I didn't exactly look like a model citizen at the time. I'm
sure I looked like a "fish out of water", surrounded by people older
than me, which would make me look "suspicious".

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How do you know? by Casmly Wed May 21, 2008 @ 7:44 AM


I seriously agree by justpassin'through Wed May 21, 2008 @ 8:20 PM




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