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by harland h. Posted Sun January 18, 2009 @ 8:02 PM
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Monica,
Having worked in retail you should know not to go into a store minutes before store closing on Christmas eve nonetheless and expect to try on clothes LESS than 5 minutes before closing. It's Christmas eve why didn't you come in earlier or for that matter the 23rd. I think it was inconsiderate of you to want to make the employees wait on you to finish whatever it was you doing. You weren't shopping for a present you needed the next day you were shopping for yourself not it made much difference except for the fact you could have shopped at any time for yourself. Those employees wanted to go home on time and relax after I'm sure was a crazy day and to make them wait on you was rude. You should not be compensated in fact you apologize to them.
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by amber G. Posted Fri January 9, 2009 @ 2:28 AM
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i think its funny how older women such as yourself have no problem keeping a store like lane bryant open on such a day.
you feel no need to think about others... went into a store on x-mass eve and 5 mins till closing decided to try on jeans and grab your bras. are you really that selfish that on a day like that you would think they would rather serve you than spend it with their families. its not like your wouldn't be able to buy your jeans the day after x-mass.
Please get over your self and and have a good day!
:D
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Why should you be compenstated, you did not buy anything at all.
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by Cambion Posted Fri February 29, 2008 @ 8:27 PM
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I don't exactly condone the attitude of the employees, but understand that it was near closing on Christmas Eve, and some of these people probably wanted to go home and spend some kind of time with their families...not remaining cooped up at work past their shift helping people who decide to shop a few minutes before closing time. I know I'd be irate about this too. Also, is there any reason why you just had to be in the store five minutes before closing on Christmas Eve? It's not like there'd never be another sale in the store (heck, LB probably has after-Christmas sales and New Years' sales like most other stores).
To be concise, I place one part blame on the employees and two parts blame on you. The employees were not one hundred percent professional, but you should not have been waltzing in so close to closing time and expecting stellar, cheerful service. As someone who has worked retail, you of all people should know how lame it is to have someone do what you did.
The fault was mostly your own for choosing a lousy time to shop.
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Amen!
by Wudido Sat March 8, 2008 @ 12:23 AM
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by bunni Posted Tue February 12, 2008 @ 5:37 PM
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I have to say there is no excuse for being rude to customers.
Here is how it could have been handled.
Cutomer walks in 5 minutes to closing:
Welcome to Lane Bryant. Can I help you find anything?
Customer responds yes/no
Clerk helps customer to fitting room adding with tact and a smile: We will be closing in 5 minutes. If there is anything I can do to expedite your purchase please let me know.
THIS GIVES THE CUSTOMER A FRIENDLY REMINDER THAT THE EMPLYEES INTEND TO CLOSE THE STORE IN 5 MINUTES AND THAT SHE NEEDS TO BE QUICK.
Now, lets assume that the customer enters the dressing room and does NOT expedite her purchase but instead begins to go beyond the alloted 5 minutes. Maybe the customer begins to take advantage running from the fitting room to the sales room picking up extra items to try on.
Clerk:
Ma'am. Excuse me. We are now closed. Please make your purchase at the front counter.
THIS LETS THE CUSTOMER KNOW THAT THE STORE IS NOW CLOSED. EVEN IF SHE DID NOT FIND WHAT SHE WAS LOOKING FOR HER TIME IS NOW UP. THE CUSTOMER WILL EITHER PAY FOR A FEW ITEMS OR LEAVE.
However, that is not what happened here. Yes, this customer came into the store a few minutes before closing but that is because the door was open and the store was still open!
The clerk was nasty. Xmas is not an excuse to treat customers with such rudeness. And, as this customer said- as she was leaving Lane Bryant the loudspeaker announced the mall would be closing in 5 minutes. That means this customer was well within her right to be in that store!
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My 2 cents
by The New and Improved Brenda Wed February 13, 2008 @ 8:13 AM
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So pooor
by bunni Fri February 15, 2008 @ 4:18 PM
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by Anonymous A Posted Mon February 11, 2008 @ 7:44 PM
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If the employee indeed spoke to you that way, he/she could have been a bit more professional about it. But I have to agree with others, it was the holidays and no one wants to be held up later than they are scheduled to be, I know that really angers me as I also would like to come home to my family. Unfortunately, there are few employers who go beyond and schedule extra staff & hours to compensate a busy day,which they probably had 5-10 minutes to clock out after closing.
I can't understand why the mall announcement also angered you, it seemed professional and its basically a requirement anywhere you go to make a pre-closing announcement. As a shopper I'd appreciate being told when the store closes in a professional matter, rather than being screamed at and rushed.
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I've worked Christmas Eve many a time, and it's mostly hell. I work it cuz I don't want to work New Year's Day; I have to work one or the other and I choose to have NYD off. Anyway, the reason it's hellish is cuz of people like you, who think they have every right to stroll into the shop just before closing time and do a big shop. That's just pure selfishness and shows zero regard for us who just want to get home to our friends/family.
I'm sorry you were alone at Christmas; however, that doesn't give you the right to ruin other people's Christmases. Next time, volunteer at a soup kitchen or animal shelter; as well as taking your mind off the loneliness, it should also help you ditch that "me me me" attitude you seem to have.
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by lovescats Posted Sat February 9, 2008 @ 11:44 PM
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I have a feeling that when inconsiderate customers like you say you will never shop at their store again they breath a sigh of relief.
Retail is a hard business. People who work in a store have every right to go home at a decent hour. They didn't know you could do all your shopping in 5 minutes and frankly, I don't believe you can.
In any case, try and put yourself in their shoes. Maybe you could shop in 5 minutes but that would not leave them enough time to ring you up, bag your purchases and get you out the door by their quitting time.
Now are you willing to pay them overtime? Because I guarantee their employer isn't. OT has to be approved beforehand. So from the salesperson's point of view you are asking them to work for free just to satisfy your selfish needs.
People like you make people in retail cranky. Stop spoiling it for the rest of us more considerate shoppers.
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by MartiniDreams Posted Sat February 9, 2008 @ 12:22 AM
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5 minutes before closing on Christmas Eve you waltz in expecting to try on clothes? How incredibly selfish can you be? You cannot try on that many items and be out in 5 minutes. Did it not occur to you, for whatever reason, that those retail workers wanted to get home on Christmas Eve to their families?
Buy yourself some compassion and common sense rather than clothes next time.
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by Buddy Posted Fri February 8, 2008 @ 9:41 AM
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I'm sorry, but I cannot side with you on this issue. It's Christmas Eve. The workers I'm sure have a VERY busy day. They want to get home to spend time with loved ones. They do not want to be stuck at the store after hours because of a last minute customer taking their sweet time. I'm sure you can understand this, since you are in retail management (or so you claim).
Next time, don't wait until 5 minutes until closing. You have no one to blame for this but yourself.
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by Nicole F Posted Fri February 8, 2008 @ 2:49 AM
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I feel that the manager could have told you a little more nicely that they were closing soon. I've told my customers politely the same thing when I see them heading into the fitting room with an armful of clothing. Usually, people appreciate being told because they don't seem to listen to the overhead announcements and don't realize just how close to closing we actually are.
To be honest, I secretly dislike any person I see coming into the store at 10 or 5 to closing, unless they are making something like a bill payment. I try my hardest to not show it, since we are still open. People in the area KNOW that we close at 9, just like the mall does. The people I despise even more are the ones that go upstairs and attempt to buy large appliances or large electronics. You just can't do that in 5 minutes; it's not nice...it's rude and most people know it. If you have such a major purchase, come back the next day when the associates will actually care about it. (Because most of them have been there 8 to 10 hours and just want to get you out the door)
It's really really hard sometimes after a loooong shift not to want to scream and rant at people that come waltzing in so close to closing. I wonder sometimes if people do it on purpose and I know that some might.
If the manager was actually rude to you, think about maybe what she had to deal with all day. You said you worked in retail. There are days when you've probably felt the same way as the manager in your letter. Christmas Eve shopping is usually very busy and hectic. She was probably there all day. Then, a customer comes in so close to closing and wants to try on things after they already spent time recovering and cleaning out the fitting room...must have been the last straw for her. She was probably tired and wanting to just go home and be with family.
Anyhow, good luck and hopefully they respond to you in some way.
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Also, by letting her stay late, they would have to deal with people who were wandering around coming in and potentially causing them to stay even later. You can't lock up when there is someone in the store, and from personal experience, even if a customer walks in and you tell them you're closed, doesn't mean they will listen to you and leave. That has happened to me more than once.
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by Giselle Posted Thu February 7, 2008 @ 3:52 PM
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I think the manager was in the wrong. I'm sorry but when you work in retail/restaurants, you have to take into account that you may have customers in your business a few minutes past closing. As far as compensation, I'm not sure what the letter writer is expecting (free clothes for a year?) but I'm thinking something along the lines of a "10 percent off your next purchase coupon" and a letter of apology. BUT, since the letter writer is too embarassed to go there anymore, the coupon would be worthless.
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The major mall retailers I worked for years ago, they could'nt count registers until every customer was out of the store and the gates were down and the entire mall was closed. This is to prevent a robbery from occuring and to ring up the purchases of any straggling customers. At this one retailer I was employed with, I was a fitting room attendant, and we had to let people try on things even 2 min before closing. We just sort of hurried them up to get them out, but let them try on something.
All I can say is that I hope this gets their attention, because even on christmas eve, they still have to follow procedure.
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by Nate269 Posted Wed February 6, 2008 @ 3:35 PM
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I had the same thing happen to me. It was 10 minutes before the mall was closing, and I was hungry so I went for a pretzel. The employees at Auntie Annes had a bunch of fresh ones in the warmer, but they told me "Sorry, the drawer is already cashed out, we cant sell one to you".
I filed a complaint with the mall customer service, and I got a gift certificate.
It is most likely within their lease policy that they have to be open during mall hours, and if they were counting drawers and rushing you at closing time, file a complaint with the mall as they were not "open" when they were supposed to be.
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Hmmm
by The New and Improved Brenda Thu February 7, 2008 @ 12:22 AM
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Why thank you!
by The New and Improved Brenda Thu February 7, 2008 @ 8:23 AM
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They probably have not contacted you because your complaint is so ridiculous! Why are you so insensitive to those who want to go home to be with their families on a major holiday?
It doesn't take five minutes to try on clothes and check out, either, and if you truly worked in retail (which I highly doubt you do because you would otherwise be familiar with issues such as overtime, time-delay locks on the safes, and so on), you would know this.
Yes, maybe they could have been more friendly, but they owe you NOTHING--your claim is completely ludicrous and I'd be surprised if they even gave you a $5 voucher for your "troubles".
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by DeeM Posted Tue February 5, 2008 @ 1:03 PM
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What earthly good would compensation do you if you are never going to shop there again? Are you expecting some sort of gift card or an outright cash settlement?
Plan ahead for your shopping in the future, there is no excuse to be shopping so close to closing and still expect to try on clothes. Lack of planning on your part does not make an emergency on the stores part.
Since you have sooo many years experience in retail did it ever occur to you that the corporation may take a very firm stance with staff in regards to overtime or staying open late?
You have no "issue" with corporate which is why they haven't contacted you. You are nothing more than another self absorbed, entitled shopper who thinks the staff should stay open late, just for them on Christmas Eve. I think you have big brass ones for thinking your are deserving or more attention and compensation.
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lol
by blkwidow Thu February 7, 2008 @ 11:33 PM
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by SusanB Posted Tue February 5, 2008 @ 11:05 AM
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You asked what time they closed and they told you "5 minutes" and in your mind you thought you could select four bras and try on two pair of jeans, make a decision and check-out within that period of time? On Christas Eve, no less? And if you are truly a veteran of retail management, then you know that hearing the drawers being counted means that the store is about to close. You weren't asked to leave the store 5 minutes before they closed - - you entered the store at closing time, were reminded they were about the close and told you needed to make a decision on your purchases and proceed to the register.
You are not due any form of compensation or an apology nor should the manager be repremanded - - and you should be embarrassed to go back to the store after this display of rudeness on your part.
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by Katseyes Posted Tue February 5, 2008 @ 9:28 AM
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What sort of compensation are you looking for? Bad service does not mean the store owes you anything except an apology. You are embarrassed to go back there but could be enticed to through a bribe, I mean compensation?
This must really be upsetting you, it's been over a month and the DM hasn't gotten back to you so you're trying other avenues. Sometimes it's best just to let things go.
Try and be more considerate in the future and you'll be surprised how the level of service improves. Good luck...
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by lj Posted Tue February 5, 2008 @ 12:10 AM
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Oh my, I hope this letter is a joke! First off, it is Christmas Eve, you need to have more consideration. When told that the store would be closing in 5 minutes, I would have left and come back another time. The staff wants to get home to family and friends and not spend time with some inconsiderate customer on Christmas Eve. Think next time you enter a store that late!
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by Adam D Posted Tue February 5, 2008 @ 12:01 AM
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Oh great. Another self absorbed shopper who thinks that the world revolves around them. Get over yourself.
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by T. C. Posted Mon February 4, 2008 @ 7:24 PM
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Agree with everyone else. You did not have time and you could always try those on at home and do a return. If you have been in retail for as long as you say you have why the attitude from you on Christmas Eve.
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by Adam D Posted Mon February 4, 2008 @ 6:02 PM
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I dunno about anyone else, but I think given the current incident in Chicago w/ Lane Bryant, maybe it would be better served to have waited for this letter to be made public.
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Now Andrew!
by blkwidow Wed February 6, 2008 @ 11:44 PM
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by Giggle pie Posted Mon February 4, 2008 @ 5:42 PM
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If I was working on Christmas Eve I would want to get out of there ASAP! It's not at all rude to say to a customer to make a decision soon. It would be rude however to continue trying on clothes when it's closing time. The manager should've been a little nicer, but you should've been more considerate.
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They could have been nicer, I agree with that, however let me give you a visual as to what does happen when they allow one customer to stay a bit longer. This does not mean that you specifically would have done this, but it does happen and chances are they didn't want to risk it, especially on Christmas Eve. And I'm sure you've seen it yourself in your own job.
The customer just needs yet an additional few minutes, to grab yet one more item after trying them on, because the one they grabbed was wrong. The employees have to hold the drawer opened longer, distractions are now happening, others see a customer in there and also want to come in, and mistakes are made. Money doesn't prove out, the employees wind up staying even longer. That mom employee that has to pick up her child so she can see them on Christmas Eve is not going to be very happy if those plans are ruined. Not that it's the customers concern or anything. The employee may get reprimanded for helping you stay and winds up having to hang up those clothes that were just tried on because why? Well, she wasn't going to be rude and ask YOU to do it. And maybe you would have offered, but they don't know that. Five minutes turns into an enternity at closing time. Now you may not be one to do that, and maybe you are one who is fast, and maybe on a regular store night they would have permitted it. But.......I've been there myself while helping a customer at the last minute, and have experienced the things that are supposed to be small that wind up being a disaster.
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by Jeffrey Posted Mon February 4, 2008 @ 2:11 PM
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I'm going to take you word that there were eyes rolled and otherwise inappropriate attitude given by the manager. I have no reason to doubt this. It's not acceptable to give a customer this kind of attitude.
However, "You need to make a decision we are closing in a few" is not over time line. You were simply being information that the store was closing.
I've been in plenty of stores where they make these sort of announcements. True, the store will try to accommodate existing customers for a few extra minutes, but it's not reasonable to expect more than a few minutes.
What gets me if that you state that you deserve compensation ("I should be compensated"). Yet, when others raised this being unfair, you tried to deny it. Either you believe that you need to be compensated for the rudeness or you don't.
In the end, I can't see why this embarrassed you or traumatized you. They were a bit rude. If this caused you as much grief as your letter implies, then there's more to this story than you're telling. Looking at your posts, below, it sounds like you were lonely and stressed. Understandable. But this puts you in an excellent position to have compassion for others.
In the end, is this really a complaint about you not being able to fully take advantage of a sale? A complaint about you feeling lonely and wanting others to "help" you with that? A complaint about store hours policy? What?
Lastly, the mall was closing. If the mall is closing, the store needs to close. Any manager that's required to clear out customers for the mall to close is, I'm afraid, going to be a little pushy.
Doesn't excuse rudeness, but I'm not sure that you were treated as poorly as we're being lead to believe.
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by donno Posted Mon February 4, 2008 @ 2:08 PM
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1. Head for the racks to grab more clothing and then 2. head for the dressing room. That takes a lot of nerve. I suppose you were hopkng to be done trying on the clothes and your purchase by, what, 10 minutes after closing? And then I get to cash my drawer out by 15 minutes after closing. I have never worked retail, but if someone did this on my time (ie after closing) I would be extremely upset.
I don't care if your were going to buy $2000 worth of clothing if I am the employee. Maybe the owner, but not the employee.
The employee's statement "You need to make a decision we are closing in a few," was perfect. That person DID NOT tell you to leave the store. She essentially told you, "pick out what you want and head to the register." But you weren't prepared to do that, because you hadn't tried the stuff on. Problem.
There isn't time to buy the stuff AND try it on. Either buy it without trying it on, or come back another time, because we're going home. Everything has to come to an end. Tomorrow is another day. The customer isn't always right.
Lane Bryant and its employees owe you nothing. If you feel embarrassed, you should. You could recover by going back to the store and apologizing for your lack of understanding. Otherwise pick anothr place to shop, one where the employees don't mind working on their own time.
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by Rhet Canter Posted Mon February 4, 2008 @ 1:40 PM
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The very end where you feel you should be compensated for bad manners? Why? If I was compensated for each time I experienced bad manners in a retail environment, I could quit my job and live off that compensation, and then some.
Find another retail shop that will accommodate your size. Lane Bryant can't be the only place. Life is full of "non-compensated" options!
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If I were the employees I would have let her try on the pants and bras, and then when she went to the register rang everything up at full price and informed her that since it was past closing time the sale was over.
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Doh!
by MA Cunningham Mon February 4, 2008 @ 1:22 PM
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LOL
by T. C. Sat February 9, 2008 @ 1:07 AM
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by MA Cunningham Posted Mon February 4, 2008 @ 12:35 PM
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where the manager told you to leave the store (as Bella pointed out). What I DO see is a very self-absorbed customer who showed up just before closing on Christmas Eve, insisted to try on clothes in those five minutes, stormed out buying nothing and then indignantly writes a letter to corporate complaining about the reaction to her own ignorance.
You say your intent was to spend $200+ in that store, but the fact that you stormed out without buying anything at all shows the staff that what they likely suspected was your intention all along was right on the money. Just another Lookie Lu.
I still don't get why they would tell you 5 minutes (and again, on the eve of a major holiday) and you somethow thought it would be alright to make this last minute dash to do some major shopping.
And this wasnt even just about the store, this was the WHOLE MALL that was closing. Its very likely that the management and security would have been on them to get out quickly as well so that the mall staff could go home too.
Add to that the fact that during the holiday season there tends to be more cash in the registers and more desperate people around. Their security measures are probably through the roof at that point. A customer who waltzes in 5 minutes to closing time and wants to try things on is (and should be) looked at with suspicion.
If you have been in retail as long as you say, would you not have had some empathy for employees who would like to go home to their families instead of waiting for you to fool around in the dressing room? I mean, really! Would you not have been fuming at the register thinking "How Rude!" if that had happened to you?
You certainly don't deserve to be comped for this and as for the being embarassed - yeah! I'd be embarassed to go in there too after behaving like this. Believe it or not, Monica, there is a world and life outside your existence.
Perhaps you should stick to online shopping - then you can leisurely browse 24/7 with no "rude" responses.
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by Angelic Princess:) Posted Mon February 4, 2008 @ 12:09 PM
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I don't think I would be able to grab some bras and be able to also try on pants all in 5 minutes. I'd feel too hurried. And why did you wait until the last minute to do this shopping?
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i thought
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by BellaSera Posted Mon February 4, 2008 @ 11:28 AM
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I'm taking a somewhat different approach to this letter. (So please don't flame me everyone! Ha ha...) I understand it was Christmas Eve, and I understand the store was closing; however, the store was still open, albeit five minutes. The customer had the right
to be in there. But the problem I have is with this line: ""You need to make a decision we are closing in a few." The manager didn't tell the OP to leave; she told the OP to make a decision as they were closing. It's a little different.
I don't have a problem with employees telling customers that they are closing, and as a former retail employee I don't have a problem with telling customers "sorry we're closed." However, there's a nice way to do and a rude way. If the OP is correct, it sounds like the manager did it the rude way.
I'm not letting the OP completely off the hook, though. It was five minutes on Christmas Eve; why she waited until then to do her shopping is beyond me, considering the mall was probably open earlier in the morning. And while I think corporate needs to know one of their stores was closing early (if only by a few minutes), I don't think she is due any compensation for this.
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by Kelshir Mon February 4, 2008 @ 12:33 PM
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by BellaSera Mon February 4, 2008 @ 12:43 PM
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by justZu Posted Mon February 4, 2008 @ 10:22 AM
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This was Christmas Eve, not just any old day of the week. These people were probably anxious to spend the holiday with loved ones, not waiting for a last-minute shopper to fiddle around in the dressing room. While the manager should have hidden her frustration with your rudeness, she was probably exhausted from a long day. If you have truly been in her position, then you should know better than to expect them to joyfully give up holiday time to wait on you after hours.
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by Ahsha Posted Mon February 4, 2008 @ 9:30 AM
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"At that point I was told 5 minutes. Great enough time to grab a few bras and try on my jeans. I know my bra size and knew where the ones I wanted were so I quickly went through one rack pulling out 3 bras and headed to another to get one more that I had seen a few days prior."
Certainly you must realize that it would take more than 5 minutes to undress, try on the jeans and then put on your own clothing. And all this after you "grabbed" other merchandise. THEN it all had to be rang into the register.
The manager had no way of knowing you only wanted to try on the jeans. she probably thought you were trying on jeans and bras. By the time... "So I looked at her and asked "OK, Can I just quickly try these jeans on?" it was too late. She was in the right to say it was closing time. She could have handled it better by replying without using a frustrated tone. I am sure those associates were tired and wanted to get home to their families on Christmas Eve. I think that desire fueled her impatience. Your reaction only made the situation worse and it all snowballed.
"I am embarrassed to even go to the store anymore" You can walk into that store and become one of their favorite customers.
I suggest you rewrite the letter and leave out the demand for compensation and the fact that you have been in retail management. That fact really doesn't matter and you want the letter to remin focused on the issue.
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I have had manager experience, and I think that she was right in letting you know that they were closing, although I personally would have found a more polite way to put it. Many stores do this. Sometimes either they want to let the employees go home, or security issues.
Either way, you said it yourself that you came in 5 minutes before closing, and you were also aware that it was christmas eve. I dont know what your family does, but I know that my extended family (that i see once a year) gathers for a xmas eve dinner, and I have a considerable drive to make - Just using myself as an example saying that xmas eve is a day when most families gather. People DO have places to go after work, and being in retail I would think you could show a little empathy for those working during the holidays.
And how should you be compensated for this, by the way?
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First of all your letter could have been shorter, we dont need to know all of the details of your life. Secondly, people in retail would like to get home to their families, they have to work long, hard hours dealing with inconsiderate people such as yourself.
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I don't see management issues here. I see inconsiderate shopper issues.
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by Steve-Oh Posted Mon February 4, 2008 @ 9:00 AM
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Why are you embarrassed to go back to the store? Because you were asked to hurry up, or because you know that you were being inconsiderate and feel a little guilty? Like other posters have said, working in retail doesn't give you a right to commit some of the acts that retail people hate the most. If anything, you should go out of your way not to inconvenience anyone else, especially on Christmas eve.
If this is the only Lane Bryant store close to you, you should be begging *them* for forgiveness. Send that manager an apology.
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I have worked a lot of retail, and as a manager as well. With the amount of divorced parents and such, many people celebrate on Christmas Eve, and not everyone who asks for it will get it off, and they all want to go home. They get paid poorly, as most of them are temporary and will lose their jobs soon after anyways. While this is no excuse to treat you poorly, I know that feeling all too well of someone who walks in right before close and tries things on. And pays no regard to the mall hours or the fact that it is Christmas Eve.
There are no issues here. They were closing and you chose to try and push the limits on the worst day of all.
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The manager handled it badly, that's for sure. I've worked in retail, also, and there's certainly a right way and a wrong way to say things.
HOWEVER...
I think the only thing worse than trying on clothes 5 minutes before closing on Christmas Eve and then asking for compensation, is writing to the DM on CHRISTMAS DAY. It's not that serious, really. Next year, try not to let yourself get worked up to the point of having it consume your holiday.
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by dawniedawn67 Posted Mon February 4, 2008 @ 8:09 AM
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I'm sorry you feel that you were treated rudely, but your behavior was very inconsiderate - they tell you that they are closing in 5 minutes, so in response you go and grab even MORE things to try on?
I have also worked in retail, fast food, fine dining, etc. However, rather than feeling that that entitles me to behave however I want, I instead treat those employees as I know I would like to be treated if I were the one working. It was Christmas Eve, it was 5 minutes before closing, and they wanted to get home to their families.
The manager should have been more courteous in her handling of the matter, but I don't think she was wrong in telling you that you needed to cut your shopping spree short.
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by (i hate more than you) vc Posted Mon February 4, 2008 @ 7:23 AM
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Compensation for what?
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by calm Posted Mon February 4, 2008 @ 6:54 AM
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I would pretty much expect to get hustled out if I showed up at a store right before closing on Christmas Eve. A month of insane hours and insane demands will do that to people. Especially for the money that the salesclerks I've known make.
But okay, I have a much greater tolerance for that sort of thing than do a lot of people, I'm in the minority that think it's indefensible to go into a store right before closing if you can't just go straight to the exact thing you want and head for the register, and I'm sure you were stressed and tired too after having just finished another 15-hour shift or whatever at your own store.
I agree absolutely that if they said you'd get a call back you should have gotten a call back. But I don't see where the manager deserves a reprimand rather than a heads-up about your complaint, and I definitely don't think you deserve compensation for being asked to finish up so that everybody could get home on time and catch a couple of hours of sleep before meeting any social and family obligations they had the next day.
Good luck with your boycott.
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